Showing posts with label Asperger Syndrome. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Asperger Syndrome. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Asperger/Autism Resource
"The Social Skills Picture Book"
and
"The Social Skills Picture Book For High School And Beyond"
by Dr. Jed Baker
You can purchase them HERE.
Fabulous...For EVERYONE!
Katherine's Doctor recommended these books and so do I.
However, my recommendation is not limited to those who have
Asperger or Autism and those who love them.
EVERYONE can benefit from these books.
Not just those with Asperger/Autism have difficulty in Social Situations.
Let's face it, conversations and communication can be
totally awkward and uncomfortable at times.
These books clearly show
how to have an engaging, appropriate conversation in a variety
of circumstances and a variety of subjects.
Teens, Adults, and children of any age will benefit from the
information so well presented in each book.
At school, Katherine attends a weekly Social Skills group
with other Asperger children. In just these few short months,
I have noticed a positive difference in the way she communicates.
The once a week group is a wonderful support, however, Katherine,
as with most Asperger children, needs daily practice and
reinforcement. She will need this practice for life, and not just
a few times on a subject and then we are done.
It is repeat, practice, repeat, practice, repeat.....
I am planning to use the High School Book for our own "at home"
Social Skills practice...a sort of "textbook" Up until now, I have been
creating scenarios for her to practice and review. These books
cover so many areas that I would have never thought to include.

Perhaps you are blessed to not struggle in the Social Skills department. ( I think we all struggle in our own way) And you very well may not. However, reading these books gives a glimpse in to the difficulty others may have in very every day common interactions. The situations presented on the pages of these books seem so simple and basic for the "average" person. I thought I was compassionate and understanding to those with Aspergers, yet I am even more aware of the need to be patient and supportive with those who struggle in very simple Social situations. The more I know, the more support and compassion I can give to those in need.

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Gift From Katherine's Teacher

All Cats Have Asperger Syndrome
by Kathy Hoopman

My10 year old daughter, Katherine, as well as one of my brothers, have Asperger Syndrome. This morning, Katherine's incredible teacher, Mrs. Hessler, presented me with this book as a gift. If you know someone with Aspergers, the cute approach in this book will help you understand them better. It is highly probable that you know someone with Aspergers.
Katherine is in the most supportive classroom this year. I attribute this to the way her team of teachers started the year. The children have wrapped their arms around Katherine and taken on the responsibility to love and protect her. As a result, the children are more loving and kind to everyone, not just Katherine. This amazing environment is in our local Public School. She spent grades K-4 at a Private Christian School, where at this time last year, mid 4th grade, I finally withdrew her after years of being bullied and the target of all things mean. As I write this, I cannot believe I allowed it to go on for so long. I worked closely with administrators and teachers year after year, always thinking that the "Christian" atmosphere would somehow improve the situation.
At Christmas break last year, I knew there was no way I could send her back. I enrolled her at our local Public School, Binks Forest Elementary. Everything, and I mean everything, at this school is better. I ended up enrolling Megan at Binks Forest mid-year also. I was concerned that if I waited until this school year, she would be behind (yes, behind) even further academically. As it was, Katherine was close to 2 years behind in Math when she moved. Thanks to an awesome tutor, she is caught up and forging ahead.
Once the dust settled and I observed Katherine in the new environment where everyone was so nice to her and she still was having social issues and several other issues, it hit me between the eyes....she has Asperger Syndrome. I spent an entire week late in to each night, reading and reading the books I had always read to help me understand my brother better. This time, I read with the perspective of a girl with Asperger. I felt like I was reading about Katherine at every turn of the page. Shortly after this week of reading and research, the help of an incredible Pediatrician and Psychologist set us on the way to helping and understanding Katherine.
Long, long story short, with the help and support of great Doctors. Teachers, and Friends, this is the BEST school year ever.
I could and should write more and more about this experience, this is the Readers Digest Version. There are volumes I need to share that I know will help others.
In 2008, perhaps I will start blog just for Asperger Syndrome support and information.